Got a cell phone? Put it to GOOD use!
If you want to flirt and sexually attract a woman, text flirting is a great way to do it.
I’ll tell you the truth, it wasn’t until 3 or 4 years ago that I started using my cell phone for flirting and now I’m not sure how I survived without it. If you haven’t yet started using text flirting to sexually attract a woman, you may want to pay attention to what I’m going to tell you!
What makes text flirting so valuable for those playing the dating game is the fact that women LOVE text messaging. If you’ve ever seen a woman at a party or any other kind of social setting, you’ve probably noticed how many text messages she sends and receives.
There can be no doubt… when it comes to sexually attracting a woman, text flirting is subtle yet effective.
But like just about anything, there is a right way and a wrong way to do it. And this leads me to my main point: Most guys TOTALLY foul up the text messages they send. They fail to understand that men and women are different when it comes to texting.
Men are logical – women are emotional!
You see, men tend to get straight to the point in their text messages whereas women use text messaging to get to know someone better and stay in touch.
Now this brings me to another point:
Creating sexual tension using text flirting.
First of all here’s an important rule to remember; always think through what you’re going to say before you start typing. Once you send it you can take it back. Many a man has totally blown a golden opportunity by sending a text that sounded good at the moment.
The kind of text you send is going to depend on several factors such as how long you have known the girl and how “tight” you are with her. For the purposes of this article we are going to be discussing text flirting with a girl you just met a few hours before.
I like to begin by sending her a a little “teaser.” Something like “Are you thinking about me? I thought so. Hi!” This normally will elicit a sweet response like, “You’re cute.” A little later, about 4 or 5 hours, I’ll send another one: “Hey, my ears are ringing – are you talking about me?”
It’s important to remember that sexual tension can be quickly gained and it can be lost just as fast. So don’t get carried away with text flirting at first. You’ve sent her two. Send her one more and call it a day: “Can’t wait to see you again!”
Stop there for the first day and let her think about you for awhile.
Text flirting can be a big part of your dating arsenal if done correctly. Use it often and use it right and you will reap the benefits.