Don’t make the mistake of thinking you are the only guy out there who has a fear of approaching women and being rejected. Believe me, you’re not alone. In fact, it’s about as common as cornfields in Iowa.
Let’s face it – you’re stuck in a rut. What’s worse is the FACT that you’re not going to get out of that rut unless you make some changes. NO, you don’t need a new face, new job or a new car. What you need are some fresh ideas and most importantly – a new plan!
First of all, is it even possible to get past the fear of rejection? The simple answer is YES! It’s simply a matter of management. I’m living proof as are thousands of other shy guys out there. How did we do it? We confronted our fear. You know what happens when you do that? You find out that all those things you were afraid of were just that…things!
How do you get to that point? Friend, you get MAD! I don’t mean peeved or irritated. I mean fed up, pissed off and downright MAD!
How many women have crossed your path that you desperately wanted to meet but you didn’t have the balls to approach her? How did it make you feel? Most guys feel inferior or weak and THAT is the problem. You get all bummed out because you blew another opportunity. The next thing you know you’re sitting on your couch, alone of course, crying in your beer about how hard it is to meet women!
Friend, until you get MAD, you’re going to keep doing the same thing over and over with the same results. The next time you start beating yourself up because you couldn’t get up the gumption to walk over there and talk to that cute girl at the Mall, cut out all the inferiority crap and JUST GET MAD.
Why does it work? Getting mad is going to boot out ALL those feelings of inferiority and weakness you keep experiencing every time you screw up an opportunity to meet a girl. You won’t have time to feel inferior and you know what you’re going to do? You’re going to march yourself right over to that cute girl you just spotted and you’re going to introduce yourself. You’re going to do it because you got mad…at yourself.
Sure you’re going to get rejected sometimes. Every man does! When you do you make a decision to either crawl back home or move forward. So what do you do then? You walk right up there and introduce yourself to another girl. It’s a numbers game. The more women you approach, the better your chances. After a while, rejection will mean nothing to you because you know the next one or the one after that will not reject you.
It is absolutely ridiculous to allow yourself to live in fear of being rejected by women. The men who have the most success with women are those that have learned to manage their fear of rejection. Now, what will you do?